
Counselling can
give you:
the opportunity to
talk freely and openly without being judged
the chance to
explore feelings and sensitive issues that are troubling you
help in
understanding the factors that may be contributing to your
difficulties
support in finding
your own solutions and new ways of coping.
Anything you share
with your counsellor will be treated as confidential unless there
are exceptional circumstances.
In today’s culture,
counselling is generally viewed as a last resort, a
crisis intervention,
something we do when we have exhausted our own resources, or when we
are feeling stuck
with the same old problem. A therapeutic conversation with a
professional counsellor can assist you to find new solutions, gain
support, and chart a path through difficult seasons of the journey
of life.
There are times along the journey of life, outside of crisis
moments, when we have a vague sense that something is not as it
should be, a gnawing ache
that something is missing, or off kilter. Counselling can help in
finding clarity about values
and exploring the meaning and purpose of life, or assisting
individuals to connect with
their passions and creating a life that is “juicy,” and
deeply satisfying. In
such instances, counselling becomes more like having a coach for the
road of life.
Therapeutic
conversations open possibilities for:
Finding power and
choice when problems feel overwhelming.
Overcoming
depression and re- experiencing hope and joy.
Learning and growing
through loss and grief, (including the loss of family pets).
Liberation from
addictive behaviours & substance misuse.
Finding assertive
and healthy ways to respond to the addictive behaviour or
substance misuse of someone you love.
Understanding the
meaning behind anger and learning respectful ways to communicate
intense emotions.
Growing safe and
meaningful relationships.
Learning to let go
of trying to control others through intimidation or violence and
reconnect with behaviours that communicate respect and kindness.
Keeping yourself and
your family safe when responding to abuse or violence of your
partner.
Nurturing intimacy
with your partner as a foundation to sexual satisfaction.
Finding your voice
in the midst of crazy making abusive relationships.
Becoming the parent
you really want to be.
Turning life and
family transitions (retirement, critical illness, empty nest)
into seasons of discovery.
Creating a
purposeful life and a balanced sense of wellbeing.
Developing new
meaning in life.
Exploring
spirituality, growing faith, and discovering spiritual
disciplines.
The safe telling of “secrets” and stories of pain and suffering, oppression and abuse, and the celebration of stories of resistance and resilience.

Life Skills Counselling Can:
Give you a better understanding of yourself. You will come to
see how past influences shape the ways you think about yourself
and others and how you relate to your world.
Understanding yourself better helps you to understand others
better.
Assist in managing stress and meeting life’s challenges.
Increase confidence. You'll feel more positive in your life.
Increase choice and helps provide direction.
Help you find greater inner resources to manage them.
Help you to connect to your unique life story, to make sense of
the past and to find those experiences that life is drawing you
towards. Experiencing your life as a coherent and meaningful
story will assist you to find direction, provide you with
increased energy and leave you feeling happier and more
fulfilled.